Step 11: How to find God’s plan for your life…the art of two-way prayer from Big Book Sponsorship
Step 11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
By Chaplain John E. Batterson
These are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to make an experiment. You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn–how to be in touch with God.
All that is needed is the willingness to try it honestly. Every person who has done this consistently and sincerely has found that it really works.
Before you begin, look over these fundamental points. They are true and are based on the experience of thousands of people.
- God is alive. He always has been and He always will be.
- God knows everything.
- God can do anything.
- God can be everywhere–all at the same time. (These are the important differences between God and us human beings).
- God is invisible–we can’t see Him or touch Him–But God is here. He is with you now. He is beside you. He surrounds you. He fills the room or the whole place where you are right now. He is in you now. He is in your heart.
- God cares very much for you. He is interested in you. He has a plan for your life. He has an answer for every need and problem you face.
- God will tell you all that you need to know. He will not always tell you all that you want to know.
- God will help you do anything that He asks you to do.
- Anyone can be in touch with God, anywhere and at any time, if the conditions are obeyed.
These are the conditions:
- To be quiet and still
- To listen
- To be honest about every thought that comes
- To test the thoughts to be sure that they come from God
- To obey
So, with these basic elements as a background, here are specific suggestions on how to listen to God:
1. Take Time
Find some place and time where you can be alone, quiet and undisturbed. Most people have found that the early morning is the best time. Have with you some paper and pen or pencil.
Sit in a comfortable position. Consciously relax all your muscles. Be loose. There is no hurry. There needs to be no strain during these minutes. God cannot get through to us if we are tense and anxious about later responsibilities.
3. Tune In
Open your heart to God. Either silently or aloud, just say to God in a natural way that you would like to find His plan for your life-you want His answer to the problem or situation that you are facing just now. Be definite and specific in your request.
Just be still, quiet, relaxed and open. Let your mind go “loose”. Let God do the talking? Thoughts, ideas, and impressions will begin to come into your mind and heart. Be alert and aware and open to every one.
Here is the important key to the whole process. Write down everything that comes into your mind. Everything. Writing is simply a means of recording so that you can remember later. Don’t sort out or edit your thoughts at this point.
Don’t say to yourself:
- This thought isn’t important;
- This is just an ordinary thought;
- This can’t be guidance
- This isn’t nice;
- This can’t be from God;
- This is just me thinking…, etc.
Write down everything that passes through your mind:
- Names of people;
- Things to do;
- Things to say;
- Things that are wrong and need to be made right.
Write down everything:
- Good thoughts – bad thoughts
- Comfortable thoughts – uncomfortable thoughts;
- “Holy” thoughts – “unholy” thoughts;
- Sensible thoughts – “crazy” thoughts.
Be honest! Write down everything! A thought comes quickly, and it escapes even more quickly unless it is captured and put down.
When the flow of thoughts slow down, stop. Take a good look at what you have written. Not every thought we have comes from God. So we need to test our thoughts. Here is where the written record helps us to e able to look at them.
- Are these thoughts completely honest, pure unselfish and loving?
- Are these thoughts in line with our duties, to our family to our country?
- Are these thoughts in line with our understanding of the teachings found in our spiritual literature?
When in doubt and when it is important, what does another person who is living two-way prayer think about this thought or action? More light comes in through two windows than one. Someone else who also wants God’s plan for our lives may help us to see more clearly.
Talk over together what you have written. Many people do this. They tell each other what guidance has come. This is the secret of unity. There are always three sides to every question-your side, my side, and the right side. Guidance shows us which is the right side-not who is right, but what is right.
Carry out the thoughts that have come. You will only be sure of guidance as you go through with it. A rudder will not guide a boat until the boat is moving. As you obey, very often the results will convince you that you are on the right track.
What if I don’t seem to get any definite thoughts? God’s guidance is as freely available as the air we breathe. If I am not receiving thoughts when I listen, the fault is not God’s.
Usually it is because there is something I will not do:
- something wrong in my life that I will not face and make right;
- a habit or indulgence I will not give up;
- a person I will not forgive
- a wrong relationship in my life I will not give up;
- a restitution I will not make:
- something God has already told me to do that I will not obey
Check these points and be honest. Then try listening.
Supposing I make a mistake and do something in the name of God that isn’t right? Of course we make mistakes? We are humans with many faults. However, God will always honor sincerity.
He will work around and through every honest mistake we make. He will help us make it right. But remember this! Sometimes when we do obey God, someone else may not like it or agree with it. So when there is opposition, it doesn’t always mean you have made a mistake. It can mean that the other person doesn’t want to know or to do what is right.
Supposing I fail to do something that I have been told and the opportunity to do it passes? There is only one thing to do. Put it right with God. Tell Him you’re sorry. Ask Him to forgive you, then accept His forgiveness and begin again. God is our Father-He is not an impersonal computer. He understands us far better than we do.
We never know what swimming is like until we get down into the water and try. We will never know what this is like until we sincerely try it. Every person who has tried this honestly finds that a wisdom, not their own, comes into their minds and that a Power greater than human power begins to operate in their lives. It is an endless adventure. There is a way of life, for everyone, everywhere. Anyone can be in touch with the living God, anywhere, anytime, if we fulfill His conditions.
When man listens, God speaks.
When man obeys, God acts.
This is the law of prayer.
God’s plan for this world goes forward through the lives of ordinary people who are willing to be governed by Him.