Do Not Confuse Your Bad Temper with the Burden of the Lord by Michael L. Brown for Ask Dr Brown
It is true that Jesus drove the money changers out of the Temple and overturned their tables. It is also true that He called the hypocritical religious leaders snakes and blind guides. But He was the Son of God and we are not, and all too often, mean-spirited Christians point to His example in order to justify their carnal behavior. This is a dangerous mistake to make.
We confuse human anger with righteous indignation and our bad temper with the burden of the Lord. We think that the louder we shout the more fearless we are and the more extreme our rhetoric the deeper our devotion.
In reality, we are sometimes out of control, speaking in the flesh, posting whatever pops into our minds, and giving place to our own frustration and anger. This is anything but the Spirit of the Lord. Put another way, there is a massive difference between venting and being God’s voices.
The fact is that we can be bold without being brash. We can be anointed without being obnoxious. We can be courageous without being carnal. We can be immovable without being idiots.
But in many circles these days, if you’re not nasty you’re considered weak. If you’re not mean-spirited you’re deemed spineless. If you don’t curse your enemies or call them names you’re a compromiser. How on earth did we get so confused?
Jacob (James) said it like this: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires” (James 1:19-20).
Even if the cause is right, if we approach it in the wrong spirit, we will not get the results that God desires.
Are there times when we are to rebuke and correct? Absolutely.
Are there times when we must call out evil? Without a doubt.
But there is a right way and a wrong way to do it, a right spirit and a wrong spirit. God forbid that we use spiritual jargon and Christianese to justify our lack of self-control.
This is especially important for ministers of the gospel, since we, to a particular degree, are looked at as the Lord’s representatives. How dare we attribute to His Spirit our fleshly behavior.
Paul gave these clear instructions to his spiritual son Timothy: “And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will” (2 Timothy 2:24-26).
To be contentious and quarrelsome is to be dominated by the flesh. And flesh will only produce more flesh. Count on it.