Luke 14:27-30 from Gospel News Network
And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple. For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him, saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish. Luke 14:27-30 KJB
Sit down – consult with Jesus Christ, first. Ask Him how to build this life, seek His blueprint for construction and knock upon His door that He – Jesus Christ – may enter into our lives to a Kingdom within us.